I make a very comfortable living, but between the office and caring for a disabled , I find very few diversions. I want to find someone that realizes age is just a number and would like to help me have some fun. I'm open minded and love to make others laugh. I'm chivalrous almost to a fault - which means very safe to be around and I know how to treat a lady. I'm 6'2", 192# (as of this morning, always like to lose a bit more) and full of - spirit. I do try to take care of myself and have absolutely no physical challenges. Ideally would like to find a FWB in the area, but would not be averse to that leading to more if the chemistry is right. A favorite phrase I coined that my friends associate with me is "If you're not having fun, do something else". Perhaps that's why my age does not seem to come into play when I'm dealing with others.

My Ideal Person I'll make this simple by telling a story that came to mind a while back while I was working in my office and it rained outside. If the following hits your heart, please send me your answer:

I am originally from central Kansas, right in the middle of what is known as "tornado alley". Great people, simple life and a great place to be FROM. During the spring and summer, afternoon showers and storms are not just common, but you can almost set your watch by them. They often continue into the night and even the wee hours of the morning. One might think that to be unpleasant, but I have many happy memories related to the weather. Imagine if you will, being in a country home, out on the plains with your closest neighbor a few miles away. The day has been busy, the work tiring. Dinner was warm and filling, with pleasant conversation and the environment warmed further by the spirits of the two people at the table which were indeed meant to be together. The table is cleared, the kitchen cleaned - together. The two relax, listen to soft music and enjoy some iced tea. Eventually, time for bed as the chores will be waiting early in the morning. It's late, but still warm so the windows are left open. The afternoon storm has continued into the evening. Fortunately, it is a steady, but fairly light rain and the sounds of the more active storms are muted by distance, providing a symphony for those that will hear. The sweet smell of the fresh air is wafting through the home and around the couple intertwined together on the bed - but still. The sound of the water hitting the roof, flowing through the gutter and down to the ground is a gentle reminder of the power of nature to provide life to the world. The two lie together - content and fulfilled with only the love they share separating them.

That is what I pray to find again.

Would you like to listen to the rain?