Great Sex. When Is The Right Time  

sexyldy1000 60F  
10042 posts
9/16/2021 5:41 pm
Great Sex. When Is The Right Time




If you feel like you and your partner have fallen into a rut with your sex life, your timing might be to blame. The most popular time for love-making also happens to be the worst time.

A study in Frontiers in Psychology shows that the timing of men’s and women’s libidos are at polar opposites: Women feel the most desire in the evening, while men are most aroused in the morning. The study found that the average MF couple is most likely to have sex between 9 p.m. and midnight which is bedtime for many people. But experts say that pre-sleep sex isn’t necessarily ideal for a few reasons:
~Most people are exhausted and there’s a good chance they won’t have the energy for the most mind-blowing encounter.
~ Night-time sex can also overstimulate you.
~For others, sex is a tension reducer and relaxer and they have sex to help them fall asleep.

If you actually sleep together afterward, while you’re resting, your body is building up hormones, and you’ll wake up with more energy and perhaps creativity for satisfying sex.

Other factors include:
Testosterone Difference
Men do have a spike in testosterone between six and nine o’clock in the morning. They naturally like to capitalize on a good morning erection. Unfortunately, women have their lowest amount of daily testosterone in the morning and a minimal increase by evening.

Cleanliness
Many women have a thing about being clean before sex. So, for her, the thought of morning breath and a night’s worth of sweat and genital odour can squash any desire for wake-up sex. These issues may be the last thing on a man's mind as he feels the warm closeness of his partner’s relaxed body.

The Best Time
According to hormone expert Alisa Vitti, the best time for a man and woman to have sex is 3 pm. Which may require some organization, given that most of us are at work around that time.

Alisa explained to the Daily Mail that a bit of afternoon delight works best for men and women, as in the afternoon women feel at their most alert and energetic, thanks to increased levels of cortisol. Men reach their peak levels of estrogen at the time, which makes them more emotionally present during sex.

So, 3 pm is the ideal time for the maximum mutual enjoyment of heterosexual sex.


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sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/16/2021 5:45 pm

[mage]

What timing works for you? Has it ever been an issue that you weren’t ‘in sync’ with your partner's timing?

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positively4you 72F  
4475 posts
9/16/2021 6:19 pm

Next time he asks, 3:00 pm it will be 💁‍♀️


harbor112 61M
1518 posts
9/16/2021 6:35 pm

Great sex .... is when you both want to have it. Regardless what time it happens to be. In my opinion.


Paulxx001 64M
21624 posts
9/16/2021 6:38 pm

I don't know where THEY get those stats for men. A man is at his most virile after a hot shower and a hearty breakfast.

Anyway, I'm an evening person, so there's no conflict; in fact, I'd enjoy it more. Then again, sex at any time is fun if you're both into it.


resant78 42M  
3268 posts
9/16/2021 6:44 pm

oh yeah! I can see 3 in the afternoon being a good time.

When I was married she would prefer se as we went to bed, and I would prefer in the morning.
Sometimes, I would help her orgasm before sleep and she would help me orgasm in the morning.


Sensuallover814 39M  
7 posts
9/16/2021 7:17 pm

Im almost always ready but the finding are so true. The best sex definitely cums... In the early afternoon. Energy... to do all that i want to do. Drive... to keep going all the night through. I like it with the lights on so i can enjoy what i see . In the light of day my hunger comes naturally. After work im all charged up muscles ready to put in work. Im not cranky from being tired or acting like a jerk. Im hungry for some lovin. Good pleasures and good vibes. Afternoons are wonderful to cum and take a ride. Deep throbbing pleasure from a strong erection too. Afternoons are wonderful to do just what we do.


Luke200043 21M  
4 posts
9/16/2021 7:31 pm

night time for me is my favourite time for sex


scc1965 56M  
121 posts
9/16/2021 7:45 pm

I am always thinking about sex on my way home from work and that is around 4 pm....It was always hot when I had afternoon rendezvous....


Knight_Skye29 65M
156 posts
9/16/2021 10:02 pm

been so long I don't remember


jc_powerman 61M
187 posts
9/16/2021 10:52 pm

I generally find mid and late morning works for me and many of the ladies I know but early to late afternoon works for others.


exsquid46 62M
548 posts
9/16/2021 11:41 pm

Ms. sexyldy1000,
"1.What timing works for you?
2.Has it ever been an issue that you weren’t ‘in sync’ with your partner's timing?"

1. If I had a partner, any time that they wanted sex would be the right time , if I was physically with them.

2. Being out of sync with my last partner was very common. So common that it lead to having a sexless marriage. Her libido crashed after the birth of our youngest.

Finding a woman that has a sex drive is a rarity in my area, and if they do have a sex drive, they are chasing way younger men.


easyrider4008 65M
2415 posts
9/17/2021 1:10 am

I am amazed at the studies people get funding for, although afternoon delights might be the best time for sex any time is good and I think it depends on two things, how horny you both are and how much you feel for each other.


Eviloutlaw1 59M
4577 posts
9/17/2021 2:24 am

Like the study, I find that I'm more sexually inclined in the mornings. Then again I'm a man and any time of day a female partner is willing, well...

Have a good one!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
38609 posts
9/17/2021 3:34 am

My wife is usually having her afternoon nap at 3pm. Perhaps I should wake her up. Maybe not!


G000dbuddy 34M  
579 posts
9/17/2021 3:38 am

Funny post

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WyoCowboy7751 68M
2260 posts
9/17/2021 4:44 am

    Quoting harbor112:
    Great sex .... is when you both want to have it. Regardless what time it happens to be. In my opinion.
I have to fully agree with this one !!! I had occasionally initiated sex with the wife in the middle of the night and she too had done the same !!! For Me, it may had been being awakened by a breast that had, unbeknownst to her,wound up right against my face, I would awaken and begin sucking on a nipple, she would moan, I would realize she's awake and it would continue on from there !! Fall or Winter, I would awaken too her snuggling closer, likely for warmth, I guess, and would initiate sex by rubbing her crotch !! She had awakened me by stroking her hand on my leg or cock and continue from there or other unknown reason on her part too initiate middle of the night sex !!!


TicklePlease 53F  
13602 posts
9/17/2021 5:35 am

I've found that if you do it spooning-style in the morning, rancid breath isn't as noticeable.


Tmptrzz 58F
102832 posts
9/17/2021 10:57 am

This was an interesting read, and I did learn something new from this study. Although the three pm sex time was a bit of a surprise. But I enjoy it any time of the day, but there is also one thing this study didn't mention is that some people as they get older, just aren't as interested in sex like they used to be.

I hope you enjoy a great Friday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


p1947q 74M  
131 posts
9/17/2021 12:26 pm

Spontaneity is best regardless of where or when. Personally, I have found that men’s and women’s libido is pretty much in sync morning, noon, night, during courtship.


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:14 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Next time he asks, 3:00 pm it will be 💁‍♀️
Sounds like a great plan

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:15 pm

    Quoting harbor112:
    Great sex .... is when you both want to have it. Regardless what time it happens to be. In my opinion.
I think you are right!
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:22 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I don't know where THEY get those stats for men. A man is at his most virile after a hot shower and a hearty breakfast.

    Anyway, I'm an evening person, so there's no conflict; in fact, I'd enjoy it more. Then again, sex at any time is fun if you're both into it.
What's great about studies is that they can create dialogue when others may not agree with the findings. Timing really is everything, isn't it?

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:23 pm

    Quoting resant78:
    oh yeah! I can see 3 in the afternoon being a good time.

    When I was married she would prefer se as we went to bed, and I would prefer in the morning.
    Sometimes, I would help her orgasm before sleep and she would help me orgasm in the morning.
Finding ways to accommodate each other's preferences sounds like the right mix.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:25 pm

    Quoting Sensuallover814:
    Im almost always ready but the finding are so true. The best sex definitely cums... In the early afternoon. Energy... to do all that i want to do. Drive... to keep going all the night through. I like it with the lights on so i can enjoy what i see . In the light of day my hunger comes naturally. After work im all charged up muscles ready to put in work. Im not cranky from being tired or acting like a jerk. Im hungry for some lovin. Good pleasures and good vibes. Afternoons are wonderful to cum and take a ride. Deep throbbing pleasure from a strong erection too. Afternoons are wonderful to do just what we do.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing your perspective on why some "afternoon delight" works well for you

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:25 pm

    Quoting Luke200043:
    night time for me is my favourite time for sex
It's a popular time for many

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:29 pm

    Quoting scc1965:
    I am always thinking about sex on my way home from work and that is around 4 pm....It was always hot when I had afternoon rendezvous....
I agree that an afternoon rendezvous can be exciting and rewarding . Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:29 pm

Some things you never forget! Nice to see you stopping by and commenting

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:54 pm

    Quoting jc_powerman:
    I generally find mid and late morning works for me and many of the ladies I know but early to late afternoon works for others.
Sounds like you are flexible to whatever the situation dictates. Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 5:58 pm

    Quoting exsquid46:
    Ms. sexyldy1000,
    "1.What timing works for you?
    2.Has it ever been an issue that you weren’t ‘in sync’ with your partner's timing?"

    1. If I had a partner, any time that they wanted sex would be the right time , if I was physically with them.

    2. Being out of sync with my last partner was very common. So common that it lead to having a sexless marriage. Her libido crashed after the birth of our youngest.

    Finding a woman that has a sex drive is a rarity in my area, and if they do have a sex drive, they are chasing way younger men.
Sounds like you were very accommodating to your previous partners. It must have been difficult when your experience changed after the birth of your youngest. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:00 pm

    Quoting easyrider4008:
    I am amazed at the studies people get funding for, although afternoon delights might be the best time for sex any time is good and I think it depends on two things, how horny you both are and how much you feel for each other.
I guess people can be very persuasive in order to get studies funded. And you are right...the 'right' time is more than what the clock indicates.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:02 pm

    Quoting Eviloutlaw1:
    Like the study, I find that I'm more sexually inclined in the mornings. Then again I'm a man and any time of day a female partner is willing, well...

    Have a good one!
That sounds like a very honest answer! Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:03 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    My wife is usually having her afternoon nap at 3pm. Perhaps I should wake her up. Maybe not!
Only you can weigh the risks of that choice!

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:03 pm

Really? I didn't think it was intended to be funny.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:06 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    I have to fully agree with this one !!! I had occasionally initiated sex with the wife in the middle of the night and she too had done the same !!! For Me, it may had been being awakened by a breast that had, unbeknownst to her,wound up right against my face, I would awaken and begin sucking on a nipple, she would moan, I would realize she's awake and it would continue on from there !! Fall or Winter, I would awaken too her snuggling closer, likely for warmth, I guess, and would initiate sex by rubbing her crotch !! She had awakened me by stroking her hand on my leg or cock and continue from there or other unknown reason on her part too initiate middle of the night sex !!!
I agree that when desire, passion and interest exist, it doesn't matter what time it is. Partners should do what feels best for each other! Thanks for stopping by and sharing your arousing perspective

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:07 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I've found that if you do it spooning-style in the morning, rancid breath isn't as noticeable.
Yep...that certainly does help!

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:09 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    This was an interesting read, and I did learn something new from this study. Although the three pm sex time was a bit of a surprise. But I enjoy it any time of the day, but there is also one thing this study didn't mention is that some people as they get older, just aren't as interested in sex like they used to be.

    I hope you enjoy a great Friday..
We are alike in that we enjoy it anytime. And you are right, the study didn't address the issues that can occur due to ageing. Hope you have great evening!

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/17/2021 6:22 pm

    Quoting p1947q:
    Spontaneity is best regardless of where or when. Personally, I have found that men’s and women’s libido is pretty much in sync morning, noon, night, during courtship.
Spontaneity certainly has its benefits It is sad when partners' libidos fall out of sync.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


BiggLala 49F  
30114 posts
9/18/2021 12:15 pm

Men reach their peak levels of estrogen at the time, which makes them more emotionally present during sex.
-Note to self...stock up on estrogen to slip a little in his drink.

No, but seriously...I'd tend to agree with this. But, sex in the afternoon wouldn't work for me. I'd need a nap after. 😴

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/19/2021 1:01 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Men reach their peak levels of estrogen at the time, which makes them more emotionally present during sex.
    -Note to self...stock up on estrogen to slip a little in his drink.

    No, but seriously...I'd tend to agree with this. But, sex in the afternoon wouldn't work for me. I'd need a nap after. 😴
Wouldn’t spooning and being curled up with your partner be a great way to nap after sex? 😊 Or do you mean it would interfere with the rest of your day? Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


BiggLala 49F  
30114 posts
9/19/2021 9:17 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    Wouldn’t spooning and being curled up with your partner be a great way to nap after sex? 😊 Or do you mean it would interfere with the rest of your day? Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
Spooning/curled up together is absolutely a great way to nap. Those are the best kinds of naps! I was thinking of the work week in reference to afternoon sex. But on the weekends? Oh hell yeah!!!

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/19/2021 10:43 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    Spooning/curled up together is absolutely a great way to nap. Those are the best kinds of naps! I was thinking of the work week in reference to afternoon sex. But on the weekends? Oh hell yeah!!!
Yep, pretty darn difficult for weekday 'afternoon delight' when working. Here's to the weekend!

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


iraduu 41M
3478 posts
9/19/2021 4:05 pm

quando ter aqueçl la tesao pela manha e dar aquela foda rapidinha isso e bom nao e


69ereatwetpussy 59M
6047 posts
9/20/2021 5:56 am

I see my Dr this Thursday.
Asking her for help
About my rise and fall
It's time for help
And I hope it does
Ladies watch out lolololol


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/20/2021 4:45 pm

    Quoting iraduu:
    quando ter aqueçl la tesao pela manha e dar aquela foda rapidinha isso e bom nao e
I am sorry but I don't know what you have written.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/20/2021 4:47 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    I see my Dr this Thursday.
    Asking her for help
    About my rise and fall
    It's time for help
    And I hope it does
    Ladies watch out lolololol
It's important to recognize when a doctor's help is needed. Good luck with your appointment...I hope you get the answers you are hoping for.

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


Still_Horny_69 59M  
4 posts
9/21/2021 9:32 pm

I think one of the most intimate times is early in the morning when you're both lying there quietly.

That said my testosterone rages a bit earlier, I wake up at 3:30 with a big ole hard on all the time. I love to reach down between her legs and ever so slightly caress her and she if she responds!


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
9/22/2021 12:09 pm

    Quoting Still_Horny_69:
    I think one of the most intimate times is early in the morning when you're both lying there quietly.

    That said my testosterone rages a bit earlier, I wake up at 3:30 with a big ole hard on all the time. I love to reach down between her legs and ever so slightly caress her and she if she responds!
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your perspective. I am a big fan of early morning...heck, with the right partner, anytime is the right time!

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


syx96605 60M
3 posts
9/28/2021 9:13 pm

well hello there love your pix thank you for sharing them


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
10/1/2021 5:50 pm

    Quoting syx96605:
    well hello there love your pix thank you for sharing them
Thank you for the compliment.
With all due respect, your comment would have been better suited for a private message since it has nothing to do with the subject I posted about. Perhaps you will take a look around another time

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


GazootheGREAT1 51M
1 post
10/5/2021 11:46 am

3 p.m. works when you have an infant and they go down for the afternoon nap ... although at that time I too am ready for an afternoon nap.

I feel that when you're in a relationship you should think about your partners needs as well as your own ... that should increase the sex benefits for both people and perhaps a happier partnership.

Generally I find it's easy to not be in the mood and therefore not initiate anything ... but somehow, once foreplay starts I find that I get in the mood pretty quickly. Maybe there's a government study idea here?


Unzipmeslowly51 51M
446 posts
10/5/2021 1:23 pm

Anyone free at 3pm tomorrow😊


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
10/14/2021 10:43 am

    Quoting GazootheGREAT1:
    3 p.m. works when you have an infant and they go down for the afternoon nap ... although at that time I too am ready for an afternoon nap.

    I feel that when you're in a relationship you should think about your partners needs as well as your own ... that should increase the sex benefits for both people and perhaps a happier partnership.

    Generally I find it's easy to not be in the mood and therefore not initiate anything ... but somehow, once foreplay starts I find that I get in the mood pretty quickly. Maybe there's a government study idea here?
Totally agree that it's important to be in sync with your partner's needs and desires. A one-sided relationship leads to dissatisfaction and all kinds of consequences. 'Tuning out' can be a cop-out. Personally, I LOVE to initiate!

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
10/14/2021 10:44 am

Hope you connected at the 'bewitching' hour

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


Erogedyne 69M
617 posts
10/15/2021 5:12 pm

Nice post, lots of great information!

Gonna set a 3pm reminder on my phone as soon as I'm done typing this!

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sexyldy1000 60F  
9203 posts
10/15/2021 5:58 pm

    Quoting Erogedyne:
    Nice post, lots of great information!

    Gonna set a 3pm reminder on my phone as soon as I'm done typing this!
Let us know how that works out

Stimulate my mind and let’s see what happens.
Be That One


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