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Does a Blow Job motivate you???  

Ellasboudoir 59F
1064 posts
6/12/2021 4:50 pm
Does a Blow Job motivate you???


Hello my fellow playmates,

It's been a while. Looks like the blogs might be working again.

So my question is does a BJ motivate you? Meaning if it is Saturday morning and your wakes you up by playing with your cock and sucking on it does that make you motivated to do her chore list? Or does it not matter you still don't want to do chores?

I tried it this morning on B and he was motivated to work for a while so it does work for some of the time. But either way, I still enjoy his cock and our playtime.

Happy Saturday and I hope you had a wonderful day filled with at least one playtime with your partner....

Ella

topherific 61M
5209 posts
6/12/2021 7:11 pm

if you're going to 'do' something for me, the least i can do is something for you


cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
6/12/2021 7:40 pm

It is highly motivating. Be it knowing your efforts all the time are being notices and appreciated. Sometimes though that almighty BJ could just be what is needed to let go and relax if really needed. There is a time and place for both.
But do know, they are never forgotten.....


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
6/12/2021 8:26 pm

My motivation for knocking out chores is having a happier partner at the end of the day as well as knowing it'll make me feel better about myself versus putting things off.

A blowjob is always welcome, but if I had the tiniest inkling there was some subtle quid pro quo involved, that wouldn't sit well.

Yes, I'm odd.


AdanVazquez33 41M
24 posts
6/12/2021 8:59 pm

Waking up to a sexy BJ is aways a blessing. There is no more motivation that compares a nice sexy girl taking care of business. I am grateful when my day start like that. Keep it up!


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
6/12/2021 9:00 pm

A bj is sex, NOT power. If a woman wakes me up with a bj, I will go down on her in a heartbeat. Do her chore list... really??


midhard1 67M
325 posts
6/12/2021 9:04 pm

Motivates me. And, that is a great way to be awaken. Cum to think of it a great way to end the day, too. Oh, and, what the heck, great anytime!

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boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
6/12/2021 9:46 pm

Motivates the hell out of me!!!!!


Coach4BustyFWB 54M
51 posts
6/13/2021 12:57 am

It absolutely would motivate me . . .


Sonymichell 57M  
50 posts
6/13/2021 1:10 am

Yes, it gets the blood flowing and the mind growing. Makes you think about what might I should do today??


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:44 am

    Quoting topherific:
    if you're going to 'do' something for me, the least i can do is something for you
Oh I am sure there are lots of things you could do for me...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:46 am

    Quoting cyclingfool:
    It is highly motivating. Be it knowing your efforts all the time are being notices and appreciated. Sometimes though that almighty BJ could just be what is needed to let go and relax if really needed. There is a time and place for both.
    But do know, they are never forgotten.....
Good to know.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:47 am

    Quoting  :

Oh he did. LOL But he finally got the chores done as well , then he got rewarded for being a good boy!!!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:49 am

    Quoting New2Midlo:
    My motivation for knocking out chores is having a happier partner at the end of the day as well as knowing it'll make me feel better about myself versus putting things off.

    A blowjob is always welcome, but if I had the tiniest inkling there was some subtle quid pro quo involved, that wouldn't sit well.

    Yes, I'm odd.
No I get it. Trust me he would feel the same but I don't ever give a BJ out of anything other than desire but it is a reward I believe for both of us.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:49 am

    Quoting AdanVazquez33:
    Waking up to a sexy BJ is aways a blessing. There is no more motivation that compares a nice sexy girl taking care of business. I am grateful when my day start like that. Keep it up!
I feel blessed as well because I enjoy giving a BJ to my guy.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:51 am

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    A bj is sex, NOT power. If a woman wakes me up with a bj, I will go down on her in a heartbeat. Do her chore list... really??
Easy there...you missed the point but I understand your view. It wasn't JUST to motivate I truly did enjoy it and would have given him one anyway.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:51 am

    Quoting midhard1:
    Motivates me. And, that is a great way to be awaken. Cum to think of it a great way to end the day, too. Oh, and, what the heck, great anytime!
AGREED!! I love giving and he loves receiving.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
6/13/2021 1:52 am

That's my guy. Smart man.


salty_one_65 58M  
67 posts
6/13/2021 5:08 am

I'm probably misinterpreting your post...it raises the question (for me at least)...should an intimate sex act between a man and a woman (in a relationship) ever be considered transactional?

Regardless of who is giving/receiving.

Maybe I'm naïve...


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
6/13/2021 6:19 am

The prospect of a repeat would be what motivated me.

But in reality, overall I'd prefer the BJ (or other sex) be motivated by desire, rather than quid pro quo.

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Want2ShareOral 66M  
570 posts
6/13/2021 6:31 am

I LUST YOU!!!!!!


MrRareity 64M  
4589 posts
6/13/2021 8:52 am

If I was awoken by a B/J I would want to play even more once we were finished then I would work on the chores.

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69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
6/13/2021 10:03 am

well ild say wake me up playing with my joy stick suck and promise me more when it cums to lunch time ill do anything ou want do it again for dinner. then a massage shower together and bed time. wake me again ill do more.


washaw2016 80M  
4 posts
6/14/2021 5:50 pm

I would be some what motivated , but might need some reminders along the way.


Unzipmeslowly51 54M

6/15/2021 5:09 am

Im sure you could motivate me ella😉


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
6/16/2021 1:08 pm

Yes, it definitely has to be a case of give and take


Go_Down_Cowboy_2 62M
1009 posts
6/20/2021 10:45 am

Blow jobs are the best motivator!! For me, personally...I would do almost anything for blowjobs! Need me to paint a house, chop down some trees, rebuild your carburetor, weed the garden...you name it...I'm there!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:34 pm

    Quoting Go_Down_Cowboy_2:
    Blow jobs are the best motivator!! For me, personally...I would do almost anything for blowjobs! Need me to paint a house, chop down some trees, rebuild your carburetor, weed the garden...you name it...I'm there!
Now that is my kind of man.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:35 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    Yes, it definitely has to be a case of give and take
Agreed!!!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:35 pm


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:36 pm

    Quoting washaw2016:
    I would be some what motivated , but might need some reminders along the way.
Agreed and NO issue.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:36 pm

    Quoting  :


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:37 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    well ild say wake me up playing with my joy stick suck and promise me more when it cums to lunch time ill do anything ou want do it again for dinner. then a massage shower together and bed time. wake me again ill do more.
Yes sir, my kind of guy.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:37 pm

    Quoting topherific:
    if you're going to 'do' something for me, the least i can do is something for you
Yes sexy man I agree.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
7/10/2021 6:38 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh he did.


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