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"I don't care anymore"!  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
5/29/2021 6:17 pm

Last Read:
6/4/2021 9:25 pm

"I don't care anymore"!

Sometimes we had good intentions, we try to help but doe's it do any good? I try to give advice and I mentioned to people about being done wrong! In the end I was the Villian and it was "Drew said"! Nothing changed. They always go back and then someone want to kick my ass! I been called all kinds of "Motherfuckers'! I was also told. no matter what you say, she not going anywhere! At one time, I was going to get a cape and rescue Damsels in distress, but the bad guy always win! So why bother.

An ex-girlfriend, chatted with a guy in a chatroom. She sent for him not knowing anything about him. The 1st several months was OK, once he got a job and friends, he turn bad and got her evicted from several different apartments, she was 3 min from work and could walk, for she don't drive. He had women in their bed and was abusive and years later, she still with him. He was the punk who threaten to kick my ass. I recently did a blog called "Throwing the first stone", about a friend of mines in jail, and did a lot of wrong and his

wife has no clue. So I dropped a dime on his ass!!!! I exposed some of his dirt, for he did wrong for years. Last time I talk to her, she mentioned a Lawyer for him. This man cheated and now she knows. She don't talk to me anymore! Why bother? Another friend told me that she going to tell him "EVERYTHING", and ofcourse say, "Drew said". He said, "your friend going to be mad with you". For he going to deny "Everything"! I tired of being the barrier of bad News and I'm the Villian! tired. So today I'm Phil Collins!

still a blackman, not a bald white man. A bald blackman. But today Phil Collins, you say why? "I don't care anymore"! Let people do what they do. You try to help or give advice, they always go back, so "I don't care anymore"!!!!!!









scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 5:37 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You have to do what is right for you and walk away from situations that just aren't right. You did the right thing my friend, I hope your enjoying your Holiday weekend..
Hi Temp, always appreciate you! Have a good day tomorrow.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/30/2021 9:52 am

You have to do what is right for you and walk away from situations that just aren't right. You did the right thing my friend, I hope your enjoying your Holiday weekend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:56 am

He's a cool dude.


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:46 am

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    ain't that the way it always goes!
    when a couple is fighting, the motherfucker that tries to stop them, is the one that gets stabbed!
    don't care! keep smiling!
    let them wonder what the fuck you know...
Hmmmm, your so right! Thanks for viewing and stopping by


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:45 am

    Quoting positively4you:
    I would want to know and would appreciate being told. The old movie line “you cant handle the truth” applies to her. She is weak. No man is worth that pain to me.
So true my friend, no one should place someone about self! Thanks for comment and stopping by


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:43 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Sometimes the truth hurts.
    I will take an honest man like you over all the lying assholes polluting our planet. I despise liars and cheats.
    Keep being honest.
    God can embrace your honesty.
    He cannot embrace their lying, cheating, thieving, drugging, abusing selves.
Hi my friend, honesty is still the best policy! But, if they don't listen, what's next?


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:41 am

    Quoting  :

My pretty, you got me! Hope you have an awesome day!


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:40 am

    Quoting  :

My friend, thanks for the kind words and stopping by


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:39 am

    Quoting Tomgruber44aYHc:
    I will tell you how I live, If I wake in the morning, It’s a Great Day, but also it’s a good day to die (never know what might happen, or when it’s your time), I tell the truth if asked, I won’t say anything behind any one’s back, that I won’t say to their face, if I have nothing good to say, I won’t say it, unless asked, Most of all, I treat other’s as I would like to be treated.. & I have learned that you can not force or make anyone do anything that you do not control.. Believe in one’s own actions & self accountability & if anyone does not give me respect, or act with Honor, I won’t be around them, at all, You don’t have to like your family, but you never stop loving them, & family will alway’s fuck you worst than strangers will.. & last is I don’t Judge anyone, & I won’t be Judged & yes you get hurt sometimes, but you don’t try to hurt anyone intentionally, be laidback, relax & everything alway’s seem’s to work out the way it’s suppose too.., further I don’t care what anyone does, don’t judge, but I won’t allow them to force their ways, thoughts onto me, just won’t be around them if they try a second time..

    I live by a code of Honor, Trust, & Respect & I am then only accountable to myself..& whenever my time is up on this earth, I am cool with this & will see what comes next..
I like your code of ethics, your outlook on life and the way youapprocahing life! Thx for sharing, you always welcome to stop by!


scoupe42 60M

5/30/2021 6:36 am

    Quoting Ultraviolet_Sol:
    I was going to say. "No fucks given motherfuckers."

    but instead I will say "Sending you positive energy."
Thanks for the positive energy


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
5/30/2021 3:22 am

ain't that the way it always goes!
when a couple is fighting, the motherfucker that tries to stop them, is the one that gets stabbed!
don't care! keep smiling!
let them wonder what the fuck you know...

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
5/30/2021 2:51 am

I would want to know and would appreciate being told. The old movie line “you cant handle the truth” applies to her. She is weak. No man is worth that pain to me.


PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
5/30/2021 12:59 am

Sometimes the truth hurts.
I will take an honest man like you over all the lying assholes polluting our planet. I despise liars and cheats.
Keep being honest.
God can embrace your honesty.
He cannot embrace their lying, cheating, thieving, drugging, abusing selves.


AlwaysReady4A3rd 44M/24F

5/29/2021 11:07 pm

Love Phil


Tomgruber44aYHc 53M  
19 posts
5/29/2021 10:58 pm

Now, Advice
If you want to help anyone, you can not help them until, they hit their bottom (whatever it maybe), everyone is different, but until they hit their bottom & begin acting on their own behalf, you are wasting your time & money, once they hit their bottom, begin acting on their own behalf, then you can help, but not do for them, no matter what their issues are, from relationship’s to addiction issues..

Now when it comes to women, they will accept a lot of shit, but they have a point of no return, that point can be anything, & it won’t make any sense to anyone but themselves, but once that point it hit, or crossed, you can not help them no matter what, once that point is hit or crossed, they will begin acting upon themselves & then you can help them from then on..
A woman’s point maybe, being hit, being hit in home ok, but in public is breaking point, or called every name, but if called a Cunt, Or being called that in public, (never know what their point is, because they don’t really or honestly know for sure themselves, until they know & feel it...
Personal knowledge gained from practicing Family Law for over 12 years & 90%+ women clients...


PornDokter 51M
13 posts
5/29/2021 10:34 pm

The hell are you even talking about? It's like you start talking in your blog like you picked up a book and started reading it from the 12th chapter. I have read four paragraphs of information and I have absolutely no clue whatsoever on any reasonable basis of understanding what on earth you are even talking about, referring to or describing to us all here....followed up by six more posted photos that only send me into a final tail spin. I mean no disrespect.

The only thing that I could actually comprehend and agree with, was in fact your heading "I don't care anymore!" and your very first sentence "Sometimes we had good intentions, we try to help but doe's it do any good?". That's the story of my life! As much good as I do for people, animals, the earth, philanthropy or advocating, it seems really discouraging that nobody in life gives a damn about everything. Worse yet, nobody has a will to listen, to learn or to follow in my footsteps. For every one good step and deed that I move humanity forward, 200 idiots do something counter productive and negative to that one same thing I do in a positive direction. Humans will eventually meet their own fate on this planet, due to their very ignorance, greed, selfishness and destruction.


Tomgruber44aYHc 53M  
19 posts
5/29/2021 10:26 pm

I will tell you how I live, If I wake in the morning, It’s a Great Day, but also it’s a good day to die (never know what might happen, or when it’s your time), I tell the truth if asked, I won’t say anything behind any one’s back, that I won’t say to their face, if I have nothing good to say, I won’t say it, unless asked, Most of all, I treat other’s as I would like to be treated.. & I have learned that you can not force or make anyone do anything that you do not control.. Believe in one’s own actions & self accountability & if anyone does not give me respect, or act with Honor, I won’t be around them, at all, You don’t have to like your family, but you never stop loving them, & family will alway’s fuck you worst than strangers will.. & last is I don’t Judge anyone, & I won’t be Judged & yes you get hurt sometimes, but you don’t try to hurt anyone intentionally, be laidback, relax & everything alway’s seem’s to work out the way it’s suppose too.., further I don’t care what anyone does, don’t judge, but I won’t allow them to force their ways, thoughts onto me, just won’t be around them if they try a second time..

I live by a code of Honor, Trust, & Respect & I am then only accountable to myself..& whenever my time is up on this earth, I am cool with this & will see what comes next..


Ultraviolet_Sol 43M
622 posts
5/29/2021 9:55 pm

I was going to say. "No fucks given motherfuckers."

but instead I will say "Sending you positive energy."

*. *. *


scoupe42 60M

5/29/2021 8:21 pm

    Quoting  :

My friend, it wasn't a life or death situation. Just that my ex-girlfriend and a friend of mines wife was with a n good person. I told my ex that she should eave that loser, but she still with him and I have that friend who did his wife wrong for year and I let his wife know. Now I don't hear from her, she most likely go back to him, so my point, me trying to help, did it make a difference?????? I love your feedback, and my friend, I know your a good wman with a kind heart, glad you my friend.


scoupe42 60M

5/29/2021 8:15 pm

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    There are some people that no matter how much you try to help them, they have to learn on their own . Just try not to let them bring you down to their level .
True, thanks for the feedback. If I know it's not going to do any good, I'll just be quiet.


scoupe42 60M

5/29/2021 8:13 pm

    Quoting Oxygen4fun:
    Be the change you want to see in society and be true to yourself as much as you can and don't care anymore about what others think. Hang in there.
I guess I might blow out some steam and I bet one day, I probably would get my ass kicked! But, I'll think twice before I give advice. Maybe if I know it'll make a difference.


scoupe42 60M

5/29/2021 8:10 pm

    Quoting Mark61Smith:
    Don't give up! Just be careful. Sounds like you are headed for trouble.

    No one here is going to say yes or no about supporting your motives.

    But say something that stereotypes a woman and your gonna hear about it.

    It is time to move forward. Let the water flow under that bridge.
Sir, I appreciate the kind feedback, thanks!


Mark61Smith 63M

5/29/2021 7:57 pm

Don't give up! Just be careful. Sounds like you are headed for trouble.

No one here is going to say yes or no about supporting your motives.

But say something that stereotypes a woman and your gonna hear about it.

It is time to move forward. Let the water flow under that bridge.


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
5/29/2021 7:24 pm

There are some people that no matter how much you try to help them, they have to learn on their own . Just try not to let them bring you down to their level .


Oxygen4fun 53M/52F  
163 posts
5/29/2021 7:21 pm

Be the change you want to see in society and be true to yourself as much as you can and don't care anymore about what others think. Hang in there.


scoupe42 60M

5/29/2021 6:23 pm

Maybe it's better to say nothing?


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